Biphobia is very real. I suspect it comes from the patriarchy which assumes that if one had the ability to choose between pussy and dick that dicks are so awesome of course people will eventually choose dick. They forget that most of us choose are partners because of who they are, not what is between their legs. » 4/14/14 7:09am 4/14/14 7:09am

Have you tried joinging a demisexual forum? There are lots of queer demisexuals who want to postpone sex until a relationship is established - and they all have the same complaint you do - that other queer dudes want to fuck on/before the first date. » 4/13/14 6:00am 4/13/14 6:00am

I have no idea what college is like today, but when I was in college 20 years ago there was a good deal of female on male coercion. What generally happened was that a female student would try to get in the pants of a male student who was closeted gay. And when the dude wasn't into it would say to him a variation of… » 4/08/14 6:17am 4/08/14 6:17am

Those seem pretty tame. One of my main clients runs multiple gay sites that feed into rent boy operations and when we screen messages to make sure the system is working "U Bareback?" or "U look STR8?" are the standard type of message. The funniest one we see often is "You suck cock?" - which, you know, if you are on a gay… » 3/31/14 4:21pm 3/31/14 4:21pm